The Brandon Show

The 6-Month Rule of Sex?

Whether or not you have an actual timeline, it’s something you may have to consider. How long do you wait to have sex with a new partner?  We talk to America on the next Brandon Show!

NETWORKING

10 Tips for Successful Networking

Networking and developing new personal and professional relationships can be a challenge. Follow these ten networking tips to get you out of the corner and eventually into new relationships.

1.      SMILE and Use Open Body Language
Whether you feel like it or not, smiling makes the best impression and presents you as being open for interaction. Smile and unfold those arms and welcome people in.

2.      Be Present
Being a fly on the wall—albeit comfortable—won’t help you meet new people. If you are standing or sitting in a corner, move to the center and work around the room. Talk, think, and interact in the present moment. Stay out of the clouds.

3.      Be on Purpose
Remember your purpose for networking. Is it to meet new business contacts, find new eating buddies, or just to pass the time away? What is your expectation?

4.      Manage Talk Time
Don’t spend the entire time talking to one person. Enjoy genuine conversation and move on. If you have developed a quick rapport with an individual, you may return later.

5.      Talk about Yourself and Your passions
You know best how to talk about the things you love. Talk about them. Focus on topics that you are passionate about and share. If you don’t share mutual interests with others, it is okay. Listen anyway.  You might find something.
 
6.      Don’t Talk about Yourself Too Much
It’s a fine line between being passionate and being proud. Talk about yourself, but let others do the same too.

7.      Listen and Eavesdrop
The best way to have authentic conversations is to LISTEN. Do this often and you will be fine. Also eavesdrop on nearby conversations if you can. This is a great way to enter new conversations.

8.      Follow Up
All this networking means nothing if you don’t follow up and foster the growth of new relationships. If you say you will contact someone…contact him or her.

9.      Have Fun
Don’t take networking too seriously. Have fun. You might say something wrong or make a mistake, but we all will. Apologize and move on with the fun of it all.

10.  Be Yourself
Remember to be your authentic self but better. Work and navigate the networking room in a spirit of excellence, courage, and purpose.

GROW

Let’s Grow Together! Are you Free?

In a new “Grow Together” series on my blog, I want to focus on and create conversation about life and how we all are learning to live it Better.

Every week, I will place a theme here in the “Grow Together” section and I will focus on topics centered around that theme.

I want you to stop by and share your thoughts, your tips, and your experiences. Make a video, send a comment, or do whatever you what to keep the conversation going.

This week’s theme is LIBERATION.

As some of you may know, I live my life with a Liberation Philosophy and it’s fitting to begin the series on Freedom.

I believe that we are here on Earth to exercise our ability to make the right decisions and learn from the ones we just can’t seem to get right, at first. In exercising free-will, I believe we are here to allow ourselves to be liberated—and by doing so—we liberate others in the process.

Our challenges are here to help us focus and call us back to purpose. Our righteous desires encourage movement on our journey. Our faith, whether in supernatural authority or supplanted self-efficacy, is our fuel and our driving force.

If you reflect right now, how much have you liberated yourself or others?

  • In your career?
  • Your relationships?
  • Your attitude?

What is LIBERATION to you and how can it help you Live Better Lives?

Ask-Brandon

Ask Brandon: Why Do Men Cheat?

Delancia wants to know why men cheat. But I want to hear what you have to say first! Leave a comment and tell me your theory!

 

 

Bike_Hold-On

Hold On When You Fall

 

It may not be a secret, but I love to ride my bike in the city! There’s nothing like the freedom (and heavy emphasis on ‘FREE’ Ha) of saddling up and zooming off to wherever my legs—and stamina for that matter—will take me.

Of course, in true Brandon fashion, safety is paramount. I don’t ride in the streets. I prefer the sidewalks even if it irritates pedestrians.

Hey, driving a car in Washington, DC is scary. I dare not ride a bike on these mean and vociferous streets.

In one of my bike adventures this past week, I learned a lesson about life.

Yes, even bike tours across America’s capital can generate new understanding about this not-so-complex thing called life.

As I rolled quickly down a hill—which for a lazy biker like myself is the best type of biking—I hit an unexpected bump in the road.

I was enjoying far too much the excitement of going downhill and my hands were not holding the handlebars as tight as they should have been. I almost lost control of my bike!

Moreover, at the speed I was going, it would have been terrible if I had an accident (And you know how I am with accidents)!

As I gave a tighter grip and my nervous heart began to return to normal operation, I had an Aha moment.

How many times in our lives do we hit unexpected “bumps in the road” and crash because we were unprepared for the possible consequences of our joyrides?

More specifically when we almost crash, what do we have to hold onto to keep us afloat?

Our values, beliefs, and morals keep us centered when we encounter an unexpected crisis. They are what we hold onto when everything else around us seems to be crashing right before us.

Have you nearly fallen off your “bike” recently?

What did you use to get you back upright and keep you centered on progress?

For me, it is my faith.

It centers me and reminds me that I can live a life full of attainable possibilities.

I also have my family, friends, and supporters who continuously remind me that no matter what challenges I face, my destiny is determined by my will.

So, at this moment, what can you hold onto? What do you have to keep gravity–life–from bringing you down?

Hold on to it. The ride may get bumpy, but at least you will have something to keep you grounded.

We can live better lives. Moreover, we can do it together.

Better Tomorrow,

Brandon Gillespie

 

This post was written for the forthcoming LOT B Magazine– a magazine dedicated to exploring and discussing all things related to living life outside the box. For more information or to submit your stories about how you are living, breathing, and entertaining with extraordinary flair, emailLodiandz@yahoo.com. You can also send your inquiries about how you can get your print addition to this address.

 

Dance Therapy

5 Things to Do to Accomplish Your Dreams



  1. Believe your dream will materialize- Don’t just dream, but have faith that your vision will occur.
  2. Write it down-Move your dream from your mind and put it on paper.
  3. Create a Plan- Devise a plan that will get you to where you want to be. Start with small and practical steps. Example: Step 1: Research on Dream.
  4. Develop a Support Network- Everyone needs support and your dream can’t happen on your own. Seek out family, friends, and mentors to help support and guide you along your dream journey.
  5. Don’t Give Up- Working your plan might bring challenges. And yes, you may get plenty of “No’s” and encounter several disappointments. Nevertheless, DO NOT GIVE UP. Remember that Passion, Persistence, and Perseverance go hand-in-hand. See your dream to the end.

Off the Top Remembered: My First Accident!

I was chatting with a friend this past weekend and she brought up my first car accident. Of course we laughed. And laughed. And laughed. Ha. Telling the story is so much better in person, but I can’t tell it all the time, so watch here. Ha.

Off the Top: Forgiveness Is A Pass to Live!

It feels like it’s the hardest thing to do, but you can do it if you want to. Forgive! Off the Top. Unscripted. Unkempt. Undeniably Brandon.

Off the Top: Work for Great Relationships

Successful Relationships Require…Work. Off the Top. Unscripted. Unkempt. Undeniably Brandon.

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